Have the urge to blog.
It's gonna be a long and wordy one as it has been a thoughtful week. Thoughtful as in thought-full.
1) I have the urge to shift to wordpress (urgh!'!!)
I know I've saying this for umpteen times and I am still here typing all the way but... My only concern now is that I can't shift my adverts over to wordpess :( my blog is part of my income too. I swear if I could shift my adverts to wordpress, I will not have second thoughts on shifting there!!! :D
2) love hate r/s with my job.
You might have wondered, what have you learnt from your job. Was it just the technical skills? Or it could have meant more? Till date, I am happy and proud to say that I have learnt how to be a better person. Yes, 100% no doubt, it's through my job.
I love my job. No, it's not because of my Job scope. It's because of my job nature. Through my job, I am glad that I am able to grow and learn as day by day, I get to witness what is happening around me. Both the ugly and the good side of people. Let's talk about the ugly side of people first, since as a human, we always look at the negative side first. Anywhere n everywhere, not dependent on whether you want it or not, there has to be an existence of people who go against you. They try ways and ways to fault you. And it is as if one is not enough, they try to influence others to think the same way as them, which is where your tolerance should come in. So what if they try to fault you? don't you think that the more they fault you, the more you grow to learn your mistakes? Listen to what they say if you think they're giving you constructive feedbacks. And if they are not, why waste your time entertaining them when what they have is plenty of time just to find faults in you? For me, I would just simply ignore and give you an answer that makes you happy to stop you from harping on the same fact and make you move on. That's what makes me persevere and stops me from leaving just because of a certain you.
I hate my job. I hate that sometimes i have way too much on my plate but I just have to entertain more queries, which is part of my job. Just when i have some time to take a break, when you turn and look around, others are happily gaming... And doing some other recreational stuff. Not that seeing people suffer makes me happy but doesnt it makes you feel that life is unfair? What felt worse is when you are rushing your very important stuff and halfway through, Person A which is of a higher seniority level, throws you a job to be done like immediately! And thats simply something I can't tolerate and makes me really really really feel like quitting! A very good example of what we call "shit job". Just like you walk on a street and out of the million and zillion of people, the bird just choose to shit on you.
3) The TV program that talked about what teenagers really want now.
For every of the question below, choose only one of each item given;
1. 钱vs自由
2. 自由vs亲情
3. 亲情vs爱情
4. 爱情vs友情
What will you choose?
For me, here's what and why:
钱vs自由
I would choose the latter. What is $ when you do not have freedom? If I have freedom, I can still choose to work to get money. If I had chosen money, how can I buy freedom? You don't have freedom to choose anymore, you are just restricted. Restricted to only keeping and counting the loads of money u have.
自由vs亲情
Would choose the latter too. I don't mind being confined to only 亲情, at least I am not combined to soeone I hate!
亲情vs爱情
I would choose the first.
Ever heard of blood is thicker than water and 爱情会谈去? Not saying that alI 爱情 wiII 谈 but isn't it safer to choose something that you know will not fade or disappear? No matter how you try to break the bond between the first, nothing change the fact that you are blood related.
爱情vs友情
I would choose the latter. 友情万岁:丿
So, what were your choices? Was your choices same as mine or did I manage to influence you? Did i make a difference in your life or encouraged you to move on in a difficult situation? Let me hear from you!